Have you ever sat back and listened to a group of women talking? What do they talk about? When asked these questions, some men will take a GUESS and suggest topics such as: Celebrity, Gossip, Shoes, Clothes and fashion, Make-up, Relationships, Men ..…and they would be correct. Well, kind of.
While it’s true that many women enjoy talking about the topics listed above, men who believe that women only want to talk about such things have a very shallow view of women and will struggle to connect with them. These men will also worry that what they talk about with women won’t be good enough.
Another important point to make about the conversation topics listed above, is that women tend to talk about those things among OTHER WOMEN.
It’s not the kind of thing that you should be actively TRYING to talk to women about. Why? When a woman talks to a man, she isn’t looking to have the same kind of conversation she has with her girlfriends. She is looking for something different.
…and most guys have NO IDEA what that is.
Not knowing how to talk to women in an interesting way, some guys choose not to talk to women at ALL.
Other guys decide that they will just wait and hope to get lucky by meeting a woman who will immediately be interested in talking about the things he finds interesting…but, finding such a woman is like finding a needle in a haystack.
Why? Until you’ve started dating a woman, she usually won’t be interested in talking about the kinds of things you chat about with your male friends. For example: Sports, the sciences, cars, politics, philosophy, computer games, career, finances, investing and so on.
Why is that?
Why do women only become interested in talking about subjects that YOU LIKE (or that men typically like to talk about) after you’ve begun dating? It’s simple. Initially, a woman wants to see if you’re the kind of guy who can make her laugh and FEEL GOOD during her conversations with you.
If her initial conversations with you are boring, she assumes that the relationship will end up being boring too, so there’s no point in starting one with you.
When you can make a great first impression on a woman by making her feel attracted to you during a conversation, the door opens to love and a relationship with her…